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Tuesday, July 07, 2009
Stay Positive and Happy
 "Wow! Finally an update!!!" Is this your reaction? If so, I'm glad. If not, it's okay too. Many things happened during this one month, which caused me to deal much with my emotions and feelings. I caused myself to feel really miserable and I almost couldn't get myself back. But, after talking to my good friend Candy about what was troubling me, I felt so much better. It' so good to have someone who can lend a listening ear and give advice, especially someone who will not judge me. Now I realise if you have problems, talk to someone about it. You will feel better after letting them out. It doesn't necessarily mean the problem will be solved immediately if you tell someone, but you'll definitely feel much better. The thing is, finding someone who you can trust and is willing to really listen to you is really not easy. No matter what, I believe that everyone can find someone who is willing to do that for you. I know if you know me in real life, you may think how funny (or fake) I may sound here, but I guess only people who understand me well enough will think otherwise. I don't want to pretend I'm happy when I'm not. Because sometimes, in real life, you got to put on a smile under circumstances, like an outing shouldn't be ruined just because you are feeling really sullen. But, I have no reason to do that here. If I'm happy, it means I'm happy, If I'm not, then I'm really not. Actually something happened today which caused me to battle with my emotions again, but some things are not meant to be shared with everyone, so I'm not sharing it here. But my point is, I'm trying really hard to bring myself together and carry on with my life. I must stay positive and happy. Everyone should. Well anyway, I don't know what's with the Twitter craze recently, but I got myself an account and tried it out. Not bad actually, at least now I don't have to create a new blog entry when I just want to share some small updates with my friends. Feel free to follow me or just check the sidebar for any Twitter updates from me.  Posted by Xie Bin at 7:18 PM
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4 Comments:
WOW! FINALLY AN UPDATE!!!!hahahas..yep i really got that reaction ok! nt fake de hor!! i was quite surprised when i saw that ur latest(before this entry came up) entry is dated on june 08? i was like huh?sugar nv update for so long ar? tt's nt like u..coz u always update at least once a week? haha..anyway..is frequent.
Yep..i feel the same way as u do..im trying to get myself back when i go into misery mode from time to time..bt i dun rly have someone whom i trust enuff to talk to. I always have the mentality that i dun wanna bother anyone with my troubles..hmm..=/
yea..it's true..im happy when im happy, sad when im sad in the virtual world..but not like tt in real life..i put on an act everytime..that's tiring isn it? ha ha ha but recently im getting worst..i mean each time i go into misery mode, its getting worser each time-.-||| haiz...
heyo! i'm psychic to be commenting while you are updating today.
It's always good to have someone to talk about stuffs with, give you advice, back you up, and share some of your burden. I have such a person or maybe 2 and i'm glad you have it too. =)
Someone once told me something, "Mind over Matter." You can allow yourself to be sad, but dun ever allow yourself to be swallowed into grief for too long. Take control of yourself instead of the matter controlling you.
Anyway, you are a Mr. nice guy who is easy going to me. i can sense sincerity in you when we went out (tho it was a few years ago).
No matter what, you know yourself best and people who knows you, knows you. While people who doesn't yet make false accusations, do your best to prove them wrong. If you did your best efforts, yet misunderstanding still stands, it shall prove that it is they who are superficial to not be able to know the inner you.
Cheer up! =)
to Roti:
me too, i used to have this mentality of not wanting to bother others with my problems, but i came to realise that there are people who are willing to listen. i guess sometimes we don't need them to give advice, we just need someone to listen to what is bothering us. and by letting them out, you'll really feel better. yah i agree finding someone whom you can totally trust is not easy, but i think you have to give someone a chance to let you trust him or her.
i also go into "misery mode" time to time, but i tell myself now whenever i enter go into this mode that, it's not the end of the world, there are still people who care, i'll be stronger and happier, i must overcome this! it's hard to do this, but it's possible, because i did it this time round! it's going to come back, but just think positive and i am sure you can come out of it like i did this time! (:
to wendelane:
i'm glad for you too! (: thank you so much wanyi, for your really good piece of advice here! i will remember for life! (:
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